Dating while parenting

 

I believe one cannot compare dating someone with a child or children and someone who doesn’t have any.

I believe dating has its ups and downs.

It is a challenge when both of you do not have children and what if one has a child?

Will you be able to accept it and deal with some of the frustrations that come with it?

The other part is likely not understand it because they do not have their own children.

Maybe it might be better if you are both parents because you all understand the pressure that comes with children.

I will share my thoughts on the subject of dating a parent and you are free to add your own.

I will start on this debate on the part of women dating a man with his own child or children.

If the man has not fully dealt with his past chances are high baby mama drama will come into play and you will have to deal with.

When you date, with the potential of turning it into something more, then I believe he has to deal with his issues before otherwise she will be a thorn in your flesh.

Looking on the other side, It is often said women are always late for dates and if she can be late and doesn’t have kids what more if she has children?

This now needs someone who is understanding on the part of the man and also the lady.

If you have children or a child deal please and not make it that your every time excuse to be late on dates.

The issue of children alone is worth discussing.

When is the right time to introduce the man or lady to your children?

This is among the questions one asks themselves in such a case.

Obviously one will questions such as is he worth introducing him or her to my children and what will they say, will they accept him or her?

If you are not ready don’t  get the kids involved otherwise they will ask you about him or her if things don’t go according to plan.